Invert Sugar (montrealais) wrote in queerquotes,
Invert Sugar

I've heard of many people who claim they'd as soon their children were dead as gay. What took me a long time to believe is that these people are saying no more than the truth. They even speak for others too delicate to use the cruel words. For there is all the evidence. The preponderance of school systems, public and parochial, where teachers are fired, routinely, for so much as intimating the right to existence of queer people, desires, activities, children. The routine denial to sexually active adolescents, straight and gay, of the things they need - intelligible information, support and respect, condoms - to protect themselves from HIV transmission. [...] The systematic separation of children from queer adults; their systematic sequestration from the truth about the lives, culture, and sustaining relations of adults they know who may be queer. The complicity of parents, of teachers, of clergy, even of the mental health professions in invalidating and hounding kids who show gender-dissonant tastes, behaviour, body language. [...]

Seemingly, this society wants its children to know nothing; wants its queer children to conform or (and this is not a figure of speech) die; and wants not to know that it is getting what it wants.

- Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick, Tendencies
Tags: homophobia
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